The Only Sex Aid Recommended By Dr Ruth Westheimer

“Despite the fantasy that women have no problem achieving fantastic, multiple orgasms the truth is that in real life many women of all ages have a great variety of problems when it comes to reaching orgasms and obtaining sexual pleasure and satisfaction during lovemaking.

Some women experience orgasms rarely or never. Most cannot climax simply through sexual intercourse and penetration alone but need direct vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay and the sex act with a partner.

On television, I tell women to seek professional help if they are having difficulties reaching a satisfactory or long lasting orgasm. In my private practice, the advice I give can be more direct - .

Women have to be able to bring themselves to orgasm by masturbation of the vagina, labia and clitoris before they can expect to achieve regular orgasms with a partner.

One therapeutic approach that I recommend frequently to women who would benefit from it, is the use of a vibrator as a masturbatory and orgasm teaching aid. In other words teach yourself the art of sexual pleasure first, then teach your partner.

A good quality vibrator used properly during masturbation can almost always give a woman an orgasm.

That does not mean that stimulation of your genitals using fingers or running water or other methods don't work, only that vibrators are more effective. This is very useful, particularly for young women and girls, or those of you who find yourselves suddenly alone, who are just learning how to masturbate.

Please note on the subject of female masturbation, there is nothing bad or dirty about touching and intimately exploring your own vaginal area or using a sex aid on your genitals. Your vagina is the most beautiful part of your body and every woman is a sensual, erotic being and fully entitled to sexual fulfilment.

Recently I discovered a new vibrator in France called the Eroscillator. Actually it is not really a vibrator at all as it oscillates rather than vibrates. but technical details are not so important to me as the fact that the Eroscillator is more comfortable to use than ordinary vibrators, absolutely safe and very, very effective.

I just want to let you know that you should not feel uneasy about using a vibrator to masturbate or to help your partner bring you to orgasm. With the Eroscillator, I definitely think the advantages far outweigh any hesitation you might have about putting a machine "down there".

The Eroscillator really can make your sex life better. To my way of thinking, anything that accomplishes that goal is worth its weight in gold.

Finally, never forget that masturbation is good for you - it relieves stress and tension, it gives you control of your own sexuality, and it is good fun!“